Finally understanding meditation thanks to SSRIs and the problem with removing your body’s danger signals (hint: villain era incoming)
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Parenting reality check: when your kid calls you out for being absent, you’re too tired to be a better person, and you just want to hide upstairs forever.
My heart was like, “JIN CONCERTS! ROAD TRIPS! ALL THE SOCIALIZING!” and my body was like, “Ma’am, we are not equipped for this level of enthusiasm.”
Staying up until 4:30am researching iconic performances (for book research, obviously), longing for the certainty of my Christian days, and wondering how I’m supposed to live my life when BTS won’t stay in Korea.
My ADHD brain thinks one missed newsletter means I should quit forever, and I celebrate the discovery of Melona bars in my freezer
A BTS side profile has consumed my brain, Pedro Pascal propaganda is working, and my hormones are now my personality.
Celebrating Min Yoongi’s return to civilian life by enabling your book hoarding habits with 1600+ free romance ebooks, including my own.
ADHD, periods, and the audacity of expecting productivity while parenting a toddler. Plus: j-hope’s new single, and why I’m laughing at my own terrible puns.
On weekend meltdowns, the magic of lysine patches, and why two more BTS members finishing military service has me ready to celebrate
On being obsessed with expansive fantasy, the challenge of self-promotion for writers, and finding joy in intimate K-hop concerts
This week: Embracing brain fog and the desire to be useless, celebrating toddler profanity, and discovering that love means fully closing doors
My toddler is inappropriate, I ask if ADHD meds can deaden all sensation (they can’t), and why I’m buying less junk despite chips being objectively delicious
Navigating creative rhythms, teen milestones, and the strange reality of watching your firstborn grow from 21 inches to almost 6 feet tall